We celebrated his birthday in the house my father built, which sounds a lot more Biblical than it should, given the proven humanity of all involved.
Still, we honored him the best we we knew with hard work, a little American ingenuity, a big ole fire and corn popped in bacon fat.
That last delicacy was more of a nod to my Dad’s dad, a retired coal miner we called Pap, who dripped bacon fat on white bread and called it a “sammich”, but Dad would have loved it too.
In fact, I definitely recommend that everyone try bacon fat popcorn at least once in their lives.
We ate ours after spending the afternoon hauling and stacking wood at a cabin my dad designed and had built back in 1981.
In the 25 years since he died, we have honored him in a variety of ways, some extreme, like the time his high school retired his number, and some more mundane, like eating big bowls of ice cream.
Yesterday, we spent a quiet day in the woods and that felt just right.
We’re still at the cabin today, thanks to Martin Luther King Jr. Day. In honor of him, please enjoy this piece I wrote a few years ago, and this one I wrote last year.
Your father was a friend and a customer with Mainline. We spent many days hunting in Georgia and have great memories on a large boat with him and your mother in St. Thomas.
I have heard stories about the boat in St. Thomas. If I’m not mistaken, my Dad road a jet ski on that trip. Thanks for the comments and the nice memories.
Yes he road a jet ski, turned it over, grabbed the rope and pulled it via backstroke to the boat.
Hilarious. That sounds about right.